Side Chick -
- a woman who will do everything your girlfriend or wife won't do.
- Main casual sex partner, and/or person to just be around when things aren't quite right with your lady.
You males who think y'all are "Pimping" or are "Smooth" are really slipping, and sliding on the thin ice known as your girlfriend's patience. If you're going to have a side chick at least have the decency, and respect for your lady to let the side chick know her place beforehand. Females aren't typically quick to turn from circumstances if they're interested in you, and if you keep things straight forward. Not only do you guys not draw the line between your side chick & your lady, but y'all also bad mouth your lady to the side chick. I've heard stories about side chicks confronting girlfriends on Social Networks, and you dudes who think y'all have all the game are to blame for things like this. Here are a few rules to not even follow but to get in your narrow minds with these side chicks & Social Networks.
- The side chick is EXACTLY that, the SIDE. She's the back up to your lady, if things aren't going right at the moment. It's actually more than just sex, she's the person you actually feel comfortable being around, and may even go to for emotional support. With all that being said, you STILL shouldn't be discussing personal information about your lady. I don't even believe that the side chick should actually know who your lady is.
- RESPECT - The side chick is supposed to know her place or position, meaning she knows you have a lady or at least know someone else who means more to you is in the picture. Yeah I know you "I Got All the Game in the World" dudes are too smooth to have to tell a female something like that right!? This is actually the most important part of having a side chick though, if she doesn't know her place your relationship is at high risk either way you look at it. A side chick who knows her place won't even argue or discuss anything with an angry girlfriend who finds out who they are & contacts them. A side chick who knows her role, knows better than to disrespect your lady because she knows it'll be like disrespecting you. Also don't ever forget that the side chick should never be hitting you up around certain hours or times when you're with you woman, that should be common sense.
- Evidence - This is where you idiots need the most guidance. Back in the day girlfriends found out about side chicks from going through their boyfriend's phone, but now they can also look at their Social Networking profiles. When you're out with a side chick, there shouldn't be not ONE trace of you even being out.
b.Photos - Women LOVE to take pictures, so side chick or not she'll be ready to get snapshots on that phone of hers. Any guy that takes ANY type of photo out alone with his side chick might as well have his rent money for that studio apartment in Hell waiting, because he's digging his own grave. Not one respectable smart man would be willing to take "Cuffing" photos with the side chick, NONE. From what I hear the new way to get caught creeping is through the photo editing app "Instagram", let's be clear there are ZERO acceptable circumstances for you to be in 1977 Filters hugged up or kissing with the side chick.
c. Facebook - The side chick is supposed to know from day one that she isn't allowed to "Tag" or include you in any post or photos on her Facebook account (that's if you guys are even friends of course). If your side chick is using the "Check In" feature on Facebook to let everyone know that you guys are at certain locations or places, you my friend have just signed away the health & well being of you & your side chick.
d. Memories - Memories are just that, they are good times but they shouldn't be given any dates of dedication. You should NEVER have an "Anniversary" of any type with the side chick. Having special days with the side chick gives her room to contact you to talk about or even remind you of these days when you can actually be with your lady. You stupid guys out there aren't even good at remembering the anniversaries you have with your actual lady so y'all should be avoiding any chances of mixing up dates.
Sad to say even after this guide a lot of you guys will still get caught, because everyone believes that they are just that smooth. All I have to say is remember if you get caught, and your lady is willing to stick with you don't continue to indulge in the game then feel a way when she does her. Remember you can lose a simple game, and still be able to play but once you lose the championship you have to start all over.